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Wednesday, November 11th, 2009

askthekinksters [ red_se_kar ]

2:58a Feeldoe hey, my boyfriend and i have both expressed interest in getting a feeldoe.  I was wondering if any of you have had any experience with one.  We'd get the classic, but I'm waffling between getting the vibrating one or just the regular one. I'm also wondering about how it feels as a regular dildo, since I'm away from my boyfriend for a month at a time (University).

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janigrey

6:35a I need to look around more Because Yesterday was Jen's birthday! Happy Belated Jen. Hope today - yesterday and all the tomorrows are fantastic.

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Tuesday, November 10th, 2009

drrtyslut

4:45p Another trip So, in the interests of getting laid again, I decided to go out the Swingers Club for Halloween. And lemme just say that Halloween costumes get much, much more interesting amongst the sexier, kinkier crowd. As for me, although there are a million sexy/slutty costumes out, I wanted to avoid all the cliches (sexy nurse, kitten, cop, pirate) and go for something a little more interesting, but still sexy as hell. My choice? Snow White (that is not me in the pic). Why? Because in addition to the costume itself being sexy, there's this whole cute, wholesome, forbidden aspect to this kind of thing. It has the same kind of forbidden allure as the schoolgirl outfit, but even more so, in my opinion. I went all out with the "cute" additions too - red bow in the hair, red panties with the ruffles, white stockings with bows, cute makeup, the works! It was ridiculously cute in exactly the kind of "I must fuck you right now" way I was hoping for. So I ran into HFD and his girlfriend in the locker room, and started getting felt up right away - the sign of a good evening to come! I got a lot of compliments on the costume, had a couple drinks, and settled down at the table with HFD, his girlfriend, and a few others. Girlfriend was dressed as a cop, and I was asking her about her outfit, and she even brought real handcuffs. I offered to show her how to cuff someone properly, so she cuffed my hands behind my back and left me there, for about 10 minutes while I pouted. I enjoyed it, but the pouting and pleading is too cute to resist. Also, I give good puppy eyes. So I was eventually uncuffed, and did some shameless flirting with a bunch of other people at the club, offered my ass for a few spankings (side note, they need to run a class to show people how to use a flogger properly - wraparounds are not fun!), and just had a good time. After a little while, girlfriend takes my hand and says that HFD would like to destroy my ass now, and led me upstairs. He throws me against the wall, and starts stripping off my clothing, and tells me not to move. The room was lit in blacklight, so that was fun. He ties up my hands and tells me to stay still. He leaves me for a bit, and I can hear him doing something with his GF, but can't see anything. Eventually he comes back and asks if I like girls. After an enthusiastic "Yes!", he grabs me by the neck, and brings me over to GF who is also bound and topless. He tells me to suck on her nipples while he's busy sticking his cock in her mouth. Hot. Hot. Hot. After a while, he pulls my head up and holds his cock a few inches from my face while I try to put it in my mouth. Fuck, I HATE when they do that! He kept holding my head back so I couldn't get to it, and then asked his GF if I should get it. She said yes, and he put his cock in my mouth. I sucked it like it was going out of style, and took him all the way down. He held my head there for a while, and I have to admit that I gagged a bit. I'm terribly out of practice and was embarrassed by it, but after a quick break and a glass of water, I was back to business. I don't remember all the details - I was whipped, GF was whipped, and then HFD started fucking GF while I watched (HOT!). He was fucking her HARD, and asked me to choke her while he was doing it. Not knowing her or her limits, I didn't go too hard; enough for a good squeeze, but not enough to really cut off air or blood, and she came hard. It was so hot to watch that I nearly came myself. One she came down, he put me in doggie style and fucked me hard. Within a minute I asked if I could cum and he said yes. I think the orgasm lasted a couple minutes, and I wouldn't be surprised if the whole club could hear me. Phenomenal! After getting dressed again, there was more partying, dancing, flirting, spanking (must be the ruffled panties, but everyone wanted a spank!) and carrying on. At one point, HFD mentioned that he was looking for an ongoing casual play partner and I asked if I was interested. I said I definitely would be, and hopefully we will arrange a play date sometime soon. So yes, great time, going again, lots of fun, etc.. Nice to be back in the game.

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Monday, November 9th, 2009

askthekinksters [ sailor38 ]

10:55p Ideas? I would appreciate your help. I'm seeing an inexperienced but very enthusiastic submissive. She has spoken at some length about her desires around humiliation, which are very focused on sex, being denied sex and/or orgasm or alternatively, being used and abused. I'm fine with all of that, but my problem is that, not having done much of this kind of play I tend to run out of ideas and dialogue. Repeating lines like, 'you dirty slut' gets old quickly. I need some i for stringing out a scene and keeping dialogue going without resorting to overly esoteric punishments or tasks...any suggestions?

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janigrey

6:23a CCM Captain Chronic Masturbation. Apparently my 8th grade nephew - has discovered - well himself. It freaked my brother out to no end. After I said - I think this is an okay thing - I mean - it is healthy to learn about yourself. It also explains is extreme need for privacy - and therefore the major meltdowns when his two younger sisters barge into his room without knocking. I also comforted my brother with the fact that his son isn't killing bunnies and other woodland creatures - and that considering he now has a internet history - we know my nephew really likes girl on girl on guy...and not sex with circus animals. My brother was spazzing because of his sons age. I think this is a normal if not late age. BUT that is not the point of this post. The point is - I need to buy this young man a christmas present and I don't think legos is going to cut it this year. Is he too young for something like Maxim magazine?

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Sunday, November 8th, 2009

batty_

9:16p almost there. i am now about 90% a lakewood resident. IT jay, conner, and D busted some butt for me over the weekend and my stuff is now in the same place i am, save for some clothes, dishes, and wall decor. our "master suite" upstairs is looking pretty cool, i gotta say. spent the day getting boog's room together. i am now just happy that he has enough room to get to his toybox. he now has my bed, so i needed to get him some new bedding. we're repainting the kids rooms, so i'm basing everything off the bedding i bought: it will be fabulous...and temporary, as we're going to get a one family house sometime next year. i will kinda miss my cave in royalton. it's where i grew up. you'll either get that or you won't. but, my woods understood and they wished me well because it knows i'm off to bigger things and the next chapter of my life. thank you, woods. now that biking is sporadic at best, i've worked back into the strength training. P90X did me just fine last year, but this is me and we all know that i gotta outdo myself. so i've dived into heavy lifting. i hate gyms, and i dont like to make my own routines up, i prefer to follow programs. so, i grabbed a copy of the new rules of lifting for women, and i am loving it so far. i think i actually read the entire book in one evening. there's a lot of good insight on nutrition - a lot i already knew from frequenting the livestrong forums, but some of the info helped me be a bit less....spazzy about my food intake. also a lot of good stuff about cardio vs. strength training, and how women are usually pigeonholed into thinking all we can do are the little pink weights and the treadmill. F that, i say. one of the truly amazing things it has helped me with is my self doubt. rewind: riding the sweet corn ride over the summer, i got too gung ho up the first climb and i bonked pretty hard and it was pretty fucking scary. that taught me a lesson, but now i think i've gone too far the other way, not wanting to relive that incident. so, i underestimate myself. maybe i'm too scared to fuck up, who knows. but sometimes you need to push yourself to the fucking up point so you know just how far you can take yourself, and 9 times outta 10 how far you can go is a zillion miles father than your mental estimate. this is actually touched on in the book as well. so i'm on week 2 of this. barbell squats are one of the major workouts in stage 1. so i'm thinking to myself "ok, my legs are pretty strong, i can put some weight on there" so i slapped 65 lbs on there, did my reps, and felt nothing. ok, i can put on more. slapped on 10 more lbs for the next bout and felt it a little but the afterburn was not there. then i reminded myself that i need to break free of this restraint - just go for it. so, i slapped on 20 more and proudly exclaimed to facebook "HEY! WOO ME! I SQUATTED 95 LBS!" and facebook was all "pffft, you can do more" [thank you, colleen] so i did. and tonight, i did 15 reps at 120 and yet another set of 15 at 125. now if you'll excuse me, i totally gotta hydrate.

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askthekinksters [ wbandherwarrior ]

5:28a A little help from my Kinksters... The Princess and I are heading off to Vegas next weekend and plan on spending 2 evenings at the Power Exchange.  Life has been a little... busy lately and my brain has been too many places.  Unfortunately where it has not been is focused planning the scenes for these two nights.  I do have half an outline for one, a medical / gyno / orgasm control scene in which I will bring her to the edge of orgasm, pull back, do something unpleasant until she comes down, then start the cycle over again until I finally decide to let her cum.. a couple of times... then make her cum a few times more. I need a second scene.  I am looking for ideas. I know that you guys don't know what we are into, I am looking to draw inspiration from what you are into.  Something you have either played out or would like to play out in a public place.   We are married, in a male top D/s BDSM, full fluid friendly, no condoms needed (wanted), no holes barred relationship.

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Thursday, November 5th, 2009

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askthekinksters [ muddawg ]

9:08p Advice Needed. ( Excessively lengthy question. ) Any suggestions? X-posted to submissiveblog current mood: sad

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daliah

3:23p i forgot the most important part! a new and budding friendshippy friend from work is having a really tough time of things right now...shes a strong amazing beautiful person who wears a good poker face...she can hold it together like nobody's business...shes entrusted me with some pretty deep family issues and she could use any and all good juju yall can send...shes a wonderful caring woman and she doesnt deserve to be experiencing this... thanks! p.s. jicama with salsa, yummy! jicama with skinny cow wedges, mmmmmmm! jicama with freshly ground peanut butter and a smidge of sea salt...divine!

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daliah

2:14p update of sorts... what is it about this time of year that incites change? im sure it relates to change of season, but no season seems to do it as much as autumn...perhaps we know that winter can be hard on the psyche and we are trying to minimize negativity in an attempt to stay sane...maybe i just notice it more because tis the season..regardless, im taking a lot of deep breaths lately... work continues on...we are implementing electronic medical records beginning saturday...the masses are in panic mode...i would be too, were it not for pharmaceuticals and the fact that i have more training than others, and am very computer literate...pharmaceuticals keep me functional but not neccessarily spiritually fit, especially considering i have never been to begin with...i have a deep yearning for the latter right now, ie. it brings tears to my eyes every time i even think those two words...my house is not in order, figuratively and literally...work and keeping the hands and minds busy has left little time and energy for cleaning and upkeep...im actually pretty comfortable with a lived in environment...im surprised husbando has not been morme frustrated with notion and reality. type A emotional style, meet type A methodical...is it possible to be both personality types? cause im totally impulsive and emotional at times, but very patient and laid back at others...whatev... we also have a new boss lady manager...no way to form judgment at this point...too early, two weeks in... these dogs still have more energy than the electric company...and theyre like hybrid cars...the more they go, the more the battery charges...they are entertaining and fun nonetheless even though weve threatened to send them to the glue factory on numerous occasions...can they even make glue out of dogs? or is it just horses...theres an uplifting thought, huh? at least they arent destructive, and the glue factory thing is only a fleeting thought. :P people are finally starting to notice a little weight loss, mostly at work, but not surprising since thats mostly where i see other people...i guess its a good thing in scrubs! i am only a few more lbs down since last time i posted about it, and i dont think i have lost any inches at all...maybe one in my hips...i am vigilant about keeping measurements, and i guess slow going is the way to go, if i want to keep it off...my stamina has improved with the running endeavor, and ive picked up the pace on dog walks around the neighborhood..doing some interval training, and as a result my legs are gaining strength and i can feel the difference in everyday life.... lots of h1n1 going on at work...mostly with the kids of employees...we have had some flu pts, but since the test takes like 8 days, we just assume type a flu...not to mention theres no difference in treatment...fluids, rest and fever reduction... lots of confused older folks too...its going to be a long winter! on two separate occasions now, i have gotten produce from whole foods only to find that it is rotten...not outwardly obviously, because then i wouldnt have picked it, but when you cut it open...im rather disappointed in this...especially since this time its my yummy honey crisp apples.. i also got a jicama, which i have never tried, so i bid you all farewell, to pop my jicama cherry...

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Tuesday, October 27th, 2009

askthekinksters [ bondmaid4life ]

2:22p I am seeing a correlation b/t being fucked, used and cumming and cumming to needing and having immense desires to please Master/Daddy (not just sexually). Is that the case? Is that typical for sub/slaves or even women/men? That if you keep a girl well fucked she wants to please you more? current mood: rejuvenated

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Wednesday, November 4th, 2009

batty_

10:44a my take on the motorola droid not that my opinion is worth a damn, but... i am surprised i have not seen this comparison anywhere. i mean, its a damn fabulous phone, but why the gotta make it so ugly?

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Tuesday, November 3rd, 2009

janigrey

10:03p carrying to torch for so long I didn't realize that my hand was numb. My first whirlwind - sweep you off your feet - tropical location, millionare, hot sex and adventure. Really it was sex in college and I realize that - but I've sorta cyber stalked this man for over 15 years. I just kept tags on what be published academically - how well the family business was doing etc.... All of the pictures were from 'back in the day' and in my memory we never age or change.... well finally a new photo after 15 years. The College posted updated staff pictures... and HE IS NOT AS HOT AS I REMEMBER HIM. ZIP - DONE - my torch is now out - holy shit.

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Monday, November 2nd, 2009

batty_

3:50p I AM DONE. root canal completed. it took all of like 45 minutes and i didnt feel a damn thing. br0d: they gave me the mouth prop without even having to ask. back to the dentist for the crown and various other bullshit. crap: DONE. seriously, i'm through it. i now return myself to my regularly scheduled life. that is, once my face stops doing its best impression of bill murray in caddyshack. like, i REALLY WANT TO DRINK THIS COFFEE but half of it is ending up on the counter. one thing i realized over the weekend is that my local 'inner circle' is changing. some of it not by choice, others because i do realize that i dont really have to expend that energy anymore. i mean, i do realize that i can be a flaky, socially awkward git at times, but i am totally not a jackhole. this just indicates that my life continues to go in new directions, and i'm not complaining. ive got some lovely, shiny new sparklies joining my circle, and then there's the nuggets of awesomeness that have always been firmly planted in the center and will remain there. for all of you, i am thankful. on that front i begin a heavy lifting program tonight, and i'll probably keep on it until bike season begins again for my first ride of the year jan 1 in the spring. looking forward to the new routine. this morning, boog came upstairs to say bye to the kitties, and he said "bye, kittykat." and i asked him if he meant what he said and he said yeah. thinking he's seeing ghosts or something, i asked him where she was, and he pointed up and said "in the sky!" and that touched me a lot.

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